Sunday, November 13, 2005

人生

人生

拼图


是否想过,何谓人参人生?人生的意义又在何处?
这类的问题,身边有些朋友,多多少少也问过壁虎两三次。
当他们失落无助,面临困难,遭分手命运,失去人生方向的时候。。
关于“人生”的疑问往往就会盘旋脑袋瓜。

其实,
人生就像一幅拼图,由不同形块组成。
经管拼得再完整,它依然还留下隙缝。
但重要的是,眼前那幅 美丽的画 是心血费尽后的结晶品。
不是吗?

有些人生活具有挑战性,是5000块的拼图。
而有些的,就比较浮浅,区区300块。
但碎片的数量会慢慢随着年龄的增长经验的累积而增加。

拼图的碎片,有些颜色单调,有些五颜六色,有些一片乌黑。
就像生活中的每一个喜、怒、哀、乐私的。
碎片的形状、接口乍看下可能一样,但仔细一瞧,大小其实不同。
虽然日子偶尔会重负又重负的过,今天伤心,明天又伤心,
但经一事长一智,你以渐渐学会了很多不同的事务。

在碎片未拼凑之前,你不会知道那是图案的哪个部分。
你很想找出答案,但又不知从何开始。

有些人还会担心花太多时间去拼一个不怎么吸引人的部分,
到不如先把它搁在一旁,去拼较有趣的地方。
其实,到头来你只在浪费时间,慢慢挑呗!
生活,也由不得你挑选要先苦后甜或先甜后苦。
来了,就要接受。不管你怎么过,你始终得过。

拼图中的缝隙,就已代表生活没有100%完美了。
那你又何必在意或理会匿藏在美景里的微微痕迹呢?
又或者,从另一个角度来看,
这些隙缝 其实为图画增添了另一种不同的美感。

生活,惟一和拼图不同的地方,就在于 它没有印着完成图案的盒子。
你不会预先知道 你的人生会是如何。

放手去拼吧!

Posted by 壁虎 at 12:54:00 AM

12 Comments

  1. Blogger Lionel Tan posted at 11/13/2005 3:55 AM  
    wah...other super duper wonderful post! At least I didn;t waste my sleeping time waitting for this post to be posted.

    the gaps, makes the puzzle not a good picutre because of the gaps, but without the gaps, it is not a puzzle, it doesn't not mkae it look like a puzzle.

    Seriously, this is a very good post.
  2. Blogger 壁虎 posted at 11/13/2005 4:00 AM  
    roach! i think you too slpy liao!!
    you see ur English!
    hahaha~~

    but thanks for waiting so "patiently" for my post!
    XD
  3. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 11/13/2005 4:14 AM  
    best post ever!
    bet it took u some time to blog it out...
    think the anology is perfect!
    not that i've never heard some people referring to life as a puzzle but those people who make that anology usually refers to the challenges in life = challenge of solving a puzzle but your post goes on to say so much more & point out many other similarities between the two.
    very straight to the point & effective post
    it strikes a chord in me for i'm one of those idiots who always questions about the purpose of life & am not too sure if i want a challenging or simple life... so, it's my favourite post!
    u r getting so good at it man! keep the good work up! eager to read your next post!
  4. Blogger 壁虎 posted at 11/13/2005 4:34 AM  
    Syl! i agree with you!! XD
    it took my like 3 - 4hrs.
    actually it all started from my msn nick: "人生就像一幅拼图,由不同形块组成。经管拼得再完整,它依然还留下隙缝。但重要的是,眼前那幅 美丽的画 - 费尽心血的结晶品。不是吗?"
    and then it gave me an idea to blog about it as well. heh!

    then after typing this post, i created another nick "I'm seeking perfection. Not in the things I do, but in the things I Want To Do."

    hehehe~
    I'm now over the moon liao!!!
    no, to be more precise, I'm now ALL OVER the moon liao!!!!
    (ur comment is getting shorter as well. hurhurhur~~)

    =DDDDDDD
  5. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 11/13/2005 3:55 PM  
    huh u took 3 hours only? if it's me i prob would need a day to blog such briliant stuff out.

    forgot to ask u how u make that effect for the picture (the puzzle pic)?
  6. Blogger 壁虎 posted at 11/13/2005 4:03 PM  
    LoL~
    u sure or not?
    whole day too long lar?
    try it, and tell me the actual experimented result.
    hahahaha~~

    u wan to noe the jigsaw effect or all of the effects i used?
    (i got it's six-step-process pictures)
  7. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 11/14/2005 3:43 AM  
    yup. think i'll probably take a day to do it... will not try la cuz impossible for me to write something of this standard la... not my style anyway... will kill too much of my brain cells... i only willingly kill my brain cells when i do my assignments (actually not very willing also)or when i want to complain about a social phenomena that i feel very strongly about.

    if u read my latest post on my Multiply... the one about some silly chocolate biscuit, you probably think that there's no substance to the post, just me ranting about how addictive the biscuit is (go read la if u haven't cuz the biscuit is famous & u must try if u haven't), BUT i was typing it from 3:15am-6:38am wor... i wasn't multi-tasking or anything... i very zhuan xin type one but then still a crappy post because of the topic & because i still never really bother about my language... just wanted to get my ideas across... but see i took more than 3 hours... yea, when i should be doing my assignments...

    hmmm, i wanna know all the effects u used for the picture. btw, the last time i taught u how to make the old old effect for your photos did u get the procedure? tried out the effect?

    since u said my comments getting shorter, i decided to leave a longer comment this time. wahaha... no la... just happened that this comment somehow become a long comment again. i'm been trying to leave shorter comments these days to save time... =)
  8. Blogger 壁虎 posted at 11/14/2005 11:33 PM  
    the biscuit i see the pic oso very nice. budden how to try? s'pore got, meh?
    never see them lying around in NTUC b4 eh.
    wah, beri hard to imagine ar? 3hrs + for this kind of post when not multitasking.
    i think i noe why, u too tired, tt's y.

    i did some testing on the old photo effects and i succeeded!
    heeeheee~~
    very ez.

    ok, the steps for this current picture:
    Precursor

    Light effects
    spot light added to picture
    history paint brush with dodge effects on all areas
    followed by burn on female lead
    addition dodge at the side area
    save file

    Darken effect
    open file with Microsoft Picture manager (did u still remember how/where to open it?)
    go edit pic under brightness and contrast
    give it the dark effect (degree of darkness up to you)
    save file

    "Trademark" added as logo on shirt =P
    open file with PS again and add your logo to the shirt (for creativity copywriting =P)

    End product 1
    create different layers for photoframe effect (sample from pigirl)

    End product 2
    do something like previous photoframe effect, however, change ur blending options

    Final product from EP 2
    add the jigsaw puzzle effect to it!

    Tada! Doneded Perfectly!
    if anywhere dun understand let me noe.
    (i'll laugh =PpP)

    when u got the time, plz gimme long-like-hell comments to kill time =X
  9. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 11/14/2005 11:38 PM  
    thanks for the tutorial will try out when i'm free... haiz... dunno that is when.

    guess i'm just a slow worker... yar i also wonder y i needed 3 hours to type that post... i wasn't tired... i was wide awake because i slept 12 hours the night b4 & i typed the post after 3 hours of studying only.

    yup NTUC got... surely have one. i went a few they all have but maybe some dun have i dunno also... but i think very hard to notice them cuz not many. in melb they have a WHOLE shelf/ a WHOLE STACK (on offer) so very easy to see but i think it's not so popular in singapore so the last time i saw in NTUC was only like a small portion of a shelf... like around 10-20 packets? it's at the biscuits section not the pototo chips section... see if u find lor... the original flavour is the best but if you like dark chocolate (i like!) try dark chocolate flavour too... i heard caramel flavour not bad also. =)
  10. Blogger 壁虎 posted at 11/14/2005 11:52 PM  
    when?
    sooner or later.
    hahahaha~~~

    usually after 1hr staring at books, it ultra-perfectly normal to feel tired even though u might have slept for the past 24hrs.
    =P

    mind sending a few boxes to me via DHL???
    hahahahaha~~
  11. Anonymous Anonymous posted at 11/15/2005 7:11 AM  
    siao ah DHL very expensive ah. i send to other people also won't send to a lizard right? this lizard very greedy! muahahaha... =X

    but seriously, if you can't find it in any NTUC i can snail mail a few packets to you. eh, actually snail mail also not very worth it... the postage soct more than the contents... but snail mail actually quite fast leh surprisingly... think only take about 5 days to reach... cuz i send stuffs to my family & frens once in a while.

    actually, since i'm going back to Singapore for holidays soon, if u really want to try & can't find in Singapore let me know lah... i'll bring back some this time & try sending it to u from Singapore. i very nice one... just leave me a message on my Multiply.

    aiyah just typed a very long comment & a VERY VERY long post on my Multiply (the longest ever, 6000 words i think) so I doubt you'll be seeing much of me in Cyberspace again... 我不在的日子壁虎要继续好好写 blog hor... i'll come read when i feel like it... too tired 开始语无伦次了...
  12. Blogger 壁虎 posted at 11/15/2005 10:35 PM  
    How i wish e-mail can do the same job as well =X

    5 days is long lor~
    before Mr Postsnail reaches i think i already died of dehydration due to excessive drooling.
    how can?!

    actually i think i should save ur effort and instead go do some 地毯式搜查 in all my neighbouring NTUC!!
    I dun believe i can only have a limited number of sticks that comes with Syl!
    I WAN MORE LAR!!
    ULIMITED SUPPLY LAGGI BEST!!
    NNTTUUCC!!!!!

    娘亲,您不理孩儿了呀?干嘛和爹爹私奔 离开这虚拟世界?
    T_T

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