信心
信心
“有信心的女孩，最正点！” - 壁虎说的
当然，不论男女，只要有信心，你就有吸引力。
好玩点的说法：
信心 是一股循环在体内的能量，
这股能量由心灵之窗，眼睛，散发。
只要有信心，眼神就会有一种迷死人 （尤其是异性） 的超能力。
重点不是要你提高自信心去吸引异性。
不过，有点自信心，总是给人 best impresion 的最佳办法。
若有信心，你的看法和想法都会比较容易被认同与肯定。
就算你乱哈啦一番，只要说的不是太离谱，而信心满满，面带微笑，你 就能说服大众。
相反的，如果没有信心，没有笑容，你说什么，人家都会尽量推翻。
有信心的人不管穿什么衣服都能引人注目，
没信心的人穿的再好看，也没有人理会。
我是怎么了？
最近写 post 都花好几个小时。
不是没东西写，就是不会写。
此 post 就花了7 个小时才搞好。
*快疯了*
Posted by 壁虎 at 1:58:00 PM
15 Comments
Another very post.
Know what? Maybe you've been subconsciously giving urself too much pressure to write a good post that's y u feel like u either have nothing to blog (because what some of the things u would blog about last time seems insignificant now) or that u just can't blog & end up taking too long (because u r asking more from yourself now). I mean that's what have been happening to me in my studies so it may just be the same reason for you. But, maybe not. I thought u should know better but since u said u dunno y, i'm just suggesting. Like you last two entries a lot but maybe u shouldn't try toooo hard to improve on ur blog... leads to mental block... eh ryhmes...
btw i dunno how to nominate ur entry to Tomorrow... so i didn't. wait till i figure out how then i would... so slowly wait. haha~
btw, i like this part of ur last entry best:
若有信心，你的看法和想法都会比较容易被认同与肯定。
就算你乱哈啦一番，只要说的不是太离谱，而信心满满，面带微笑，你 就能说服大众。
相反的，如果没有信心，没有笑容，你说什么，人家都会尽量推翻。
I so so so agree with this. Just because I hardly smile, some people always like to tui fan what ever I say. Sometimes is because they misinterpret me & insist that I meant something else. Sometimes they just bu fu I guess & want to tui fan what I said. My dad always tell me that nobody will hit a person with a smiling face & that even if ku xiao also better than never xiao. I agree with my dad, although must also know when not to smile la~, but I never really understand how important it is. cuz my dad always nagging. until i read ur post. somehow u made smiling become very important wor. I'll try to change for my next work experience or presentations. but on a daily basis, still qt hard to change... 21 years already... difficult to change suddenly.
i also think confidence v important. but i dun think if u have no confidence people will tui fan what u say... maybe they just doubt ur capability. but as long as u can prove that later then should be no prob. but some times people dun give u that chance...
Syl, i think u might like sesamii and 奇幻乐园 as well, they are of the same genre.
to nominate a blog, it's easier to do it with an account.
to do it anonymously, the procedure is abit 麻烦 wan..
can remember wadz the difference liao.
you can register here: http://tomorrow.sg/user/register
and nominate here: http://tomorrow.sg/recommend
i think, the "pressure", or not, or whatsoever, comes more from school bah?
every night oso got a 100-words-at-least journal to write.. and i normally procastinate it till 11pm then do since deadtime is 11.59pm of the particular day.
which results in no state-of-mind-scanning.
and then for weekends, dammnit, gotta study for test, although it's going to be a not-so-difficult wan.
and since it's not difficult, i procastinate again. and then during the period b4 i have start studying, i cant blog.
>_<
so tt's y my post all turn out short and sweet but takes a geckozillion minutes and seconds to finish.
and i hardly got a commodious brain to put a scanner in to scan through my memories for wad can be blogged on.
(those extra space in mind are all filled with sianess-for-homework-and-test-and-report kind of stuff.)
you dun xiao wan?
then y the narcissistic photos of yours in multiply can see yellow teeth?
hahaha!!
but i believe tt in the past like 10+ years ago u dun smile.
from ur tt geninue-old-photo-with-young-and-glumly-face picture, i can tell.
hahahaha!
i mean if u 乱哈啦 without confidence, then ppl will 推翻 ur speech.
always kena shot like hell (exaggerated a bit) during class presentation, man.
and ofcos, even if u speack the truth with the 后天性 lack-of-confidence characteristic, ppl might have doubt about ur words.
sometimes, other then people dun give u a chance, you hardly would give urself a chance as well... cos again, u lack of self-cons...
this long long comment, once and again, is very 过瘾 to reply!!
i know i need to go for teeth whitening lah. damn obvious right? sian diao... no money wor... costs dunno how many thousand... but i'm desperate... u still make fun of me... next time cannot be lazy must PS my teeth already...
my those photos is because i vain/ bo liao/ act cute... & i really look very fierce/ blur if i dun smile (which is 99% of the day). I didn't know myself but a lot of people told me so... even strangers. who wants to see firece looking pictures in my blog? even i myself now can't stand the look of me not smiling. & another reason for smiling in photos is because i grew so fat that each time i take a photo of myself i have to smile to console myself that my dimples are still there (although vanishing already la), can or not?! anyway, take photo actually jiu shi must smile wat, not like some lizard dun smile while taking photo... =P
wah u very efficient... can finish at least 100 words journal within less than 1 hour. I think I need min 1-2 hours for 100 words. I take around 10 hours to finish 500 words essay lor (excluding researching). I always have mental block (80% of the time) & I 101% of the time overshoot word limit by at least 200 words (unless I do a last min job & cannot finish even the required word length). That's y I always procrastinate on my essays. Not so difficult I go & make until so difficult for myself. I deserve it...
you got tests & still can blog so regularly, some more not rambling but blogging... if is me... my blog will just die.
agree with u, sometimes is other people dun give people with low confidence chance but actually is also people with low confidence dun give themselves chance... wise words.
aiya Syl ar, outside got sell teeth whitening dunno-wad-stuff.
Slyvester got shoot that advertsement.
cheap cheap only, budden i dunno Aust there got sell or not.
maybe not, Sly not tt famous yet.
hahahaha~~
hmm.. maybe next time i go Esplanade take photo of the Merlion, i need to tickle him or something.. or if not, i'll get a Merlion of the opposite sex to make it smile.
LoL! usually my journal, i crap it out wan..
in RP, they dun mark your journal, but they degrade u if u dun hand it up.
S-hose... so i juz crap it up if i dunno, or get a web, ctrl c+v, or if noe how to do, i'll juz finish up asap.
my test damn 儿戏 wan lar, like every test u juz have to read 3 - 4 ppt of 10 - 20 slides each..
like 1 day can complete studying liao..
and whether what grade u got, as long as u pass, it shouldn't matter much..
RP liddat wan..
I'M WISE!!!!!!
hahahaha~~
so, check put Tomorrow ready?
LoL~~
i know there are teeth withening kits on the market. in australia there are even more varieties than in Singapore. Australians are very particular about their teeth... so it doesn't matter whether sly is famous or not... it's not like he invented the product or he's the only endorser across the world for the product. & those whitening kit dun work. i mean they do help a bit but they are not that effective. also they are not economical. each kit only last for 1-2 weeks some for a month max. i.e. if they are whitening strips u only get the supply for 1-2 weeks then after that u need to get a new pack again. i tried one kit which is a small bottle of paste which u paint onto each of your teeth after brushing. so unhygenic! cuz the brush u would dip back into the bottle again aftet each use. then i see no results after a few days then i impatient & lazy dun use already. so wasted. i think these kits cost around 20 bucks each. so if someone has medium to serious teeth discoloration, not worth it. 1) the effect is not that great, 2) very troublesome. 3) u dun expect your teeth to improve dramatically within one or 2 months or just weeks right? means u probably have to live on the whitening kit for at least half a year? i dunno, i'm guessing maybe shorter time but maybe longer time... so do the maths... not worth it. Might as well just go into the dentist & get it professionally done. 1) your teeth not only become whiter but becomes sparkling white (that's what many many many of the Hollywood & Hongkong stars do... u think they all got sparkling white teeth, esp when they drink & smoke?), 2)it's a once & for all job, but maybe would have to touch up every half a year. but if you avoid food that stain your teeth & take good care of your teeth i think u dun ever will need to touch up anymore. The only thing about getting it professionally done is that it's damn ex. & the technique that they use for celebrities i dun think is very common in Singapore yet. I read it in a dental magazine at a dentist that Singapore dentist still use a cheaper alternative. I think there's no demand for the expernsive method in Singapore maybe...
u make studying biomed sound like very easy like that. but u have exams right?
eh u very thick-skin, so eager to know whether people got nominate ur post to Tomorrow or not. =P
studying biomed is very chim, budden, RP makes it "easy".
hahahaha~~~
we only got test here, no exams AT ALL.
cool rite? not really.
hahaha~~
i not thick skin lar, juz to see how's ur progress in figuring out Tomorrow.
=PpPpP
有些事情不管你說的多麼地有信心﹐多麼地有道理﹐別人還是不會認同。在他們的腦海裡﹐有些想法已經是根深蒂固了。
就好像俗語說的﹕“秀才遇到兵﹐有理說不清。”
此外我個人認為儀表上的自信心和語言上的自信心差別滿大的﹐不應該混在一起同為一論。
Seth，我的看法是 有信心的人，他们所说的会比较容易被认同。而不是100%一定会被认同。
我不否认“秀才遇到兵﹐有理說不清。”这说法。不过，这和“信心”是两码事。
虽然如此，我想，天下无难事，只怕有心人。
试多几次，蛮牛也可以让你说服，心甘情愿跟着你回家。
仪表上和语言上的自信心怎么不同了？这我就摸不着头脑。
我的观点是，对自己外表有信心，你说话也就有信心。不是吗？
不如说说你的看法？怎么个不该乱混一论？
你们的comments都好长哦！可以当一个post来写！woo~~~
以前上tutorial的时候就有那种说话很有信心的人，不管他说的是对的还是错的，都会让人觉得他很有魅力...
Charisma...
卡卡卡~~
只是内容不适合写成 post 而已, 不然我就不用愁 blog 没东西写了！
我现在在RP念书，每天都有 presentation。
结果觉察到的：
如果有信心，说错没人起疑心。
要是没信心，说对也没人会相信（除非他们都知道是对的）。
Good comments. But, I do not agree with most of them. People sure have a lot of time on their hands.
Anonymous, thatnks for commenting on one of my archived post! appreaciated!
but sorry, could u please tell me more? what do u mean by "People sure have a lot of time on their hands." ??? honestly i don't get what u are trying to say.
:)
Thank you!
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