Sex and Porn!! (nothing dirty here, ok?)
Pornography!
you would have seen the poll in my blog, questioned "Would you accept your boy/girlfriend to look at pornographic materials?" by now. noticed that i've seperate the choices for both guys and gals, although i'm not sure if the guys were voting it honestly, but i believe that the gals certainly are, partly bcos i have got absolutely no idea which guy would come to my blog and vote in the very 1st place.
the results were:
Yes, why not? (for gals) - 2 votes
maybe... (for gals) - 4 votes
No way! (for gals) - 2 votes
Yes, why not? (for guys) - 2 votes
maybe... (for guys) - 1 vote *from me*
No way! (for guys) - 1 vote *from me*
and a total of 12 votes *10 votes to be precise*
FYI, 1 voted each for "maybe... (for guys)" and "No way! (for guys)" cos nobody voted.
honestly speaking, i can't really imagine gals watch porn, but i do heard others (which i don't know) claiming they do, and i would like to noe if gals really do, juz out of curiousity for your info...
ok, back to the topic, from the number of votes, can we see something? Although few votes might not be reliable, but we have seen that 2 gals voted "Yes, why not?". does that means that gals are now more open, or in other words, they are giving in to their stead? from a gal's point of view, this might be true... they are indeed open. but in guys point of view, well, atleast from what i've seen on "sex+body" section and some related articles in "Teens" magazine and from some other forum/discussion on9 be it dirty or clean, where more and more topics related to sex and porn were being brought up, what i can say is tt, if all guys are honest enuf to admit, most of them will tell you that they watch porn! by the way, let me emphasize, it's MOST! not all or minority, but most of the guys. the point i'm writing this is to shows that most guys view porn and whether it's right or wrong, it actually depends on the extent, which is how engrossed is he into it.
from "Teens" magazine, i saw lots of gals posting questions asking about the yellow stain in their undies in the "sex+body" section.. just wondering why does the same question have to be asked every week repeatedly...
juz for some relaxation b4 we enter the main topic, would you consider this as porn? or art?
"body art" - drawn on real women's body
in my point of view, as long as the picture is nth erotica, it's not considered porn, even if it shows a maked body. but whether if it's art or not, it depends on what the individual themself thinks.
i think this is art.
Porn leading to underage sex? oral sex?
noticed i kept mentioning about "Teens" magazine? yes! tt's where the source of this post came from. often saw lots of readers, both guys and girls asking about pregnancy and AIDS in the "sex+body" section. many girls were engaging in sex and this includes oral sex as well, problem is that they are only 16 to 18 of age! is this a legal age to have sex? i tot gals legal age is around 20? guys are 18 if i'm not wrong, and gals are deffintely older! i can't imagine gals having oral sex actually, are they being force emotionaly or physically? *wondering* isn't it disgusting to swallow?
since guys nowadays get contact with porn at a younger age (below 21), is this why underage sex occurs? due to the urge for such fantasies?
adults does not have enough knowledge on sex, BUT DEFINETLY MORE THEN A teen! or else readers woudn't be writing to experts asking so much about pregnancy and AIDS and so on after regretting for their moment of foolishness.
i've got no idea what i'm writting about, however i still thinks that it make some sense?
an advise from MY POINT OF VIEW as a guy (not as an expert):
relationship in such a young age is not likely to last long (may have exception though), so sex without doubt, is not advisable.
since i've reach here, why not continue on Gays and Lesbians?
When did anyone mentioned that it is a MUST for couples to have babies? well, as much as i noe, everyone has his or her own choice of who would they be most happy with. everyone, including you and me has got our own choice to look for the person we love, rite?
take a look at a different perseption:
Characters involved: A, B, C, D and all the way to X, Y, Z
Settings: A land consisting of 26 people only - A to Z
people in the previous generation:
Mr A fall in love with Miss B
Mr G fall in love with Miss F
Miss K fall in love with Mr D
Mr E fall in love with Miss Q
people in the current/future generation:
Mr A fall in love with Mr G
Miss F fall in love with Mdm H
ah boi R fall in love with ah gal E
uncle Q fall in love with Mrs T
ah ma X fall in love with aunty L
people in the previous generation has concept of male and female must get married to past down the generation and a women/guy cannot fall for married men/women. it is like what everybody is thinking, guy and gal, male and female, Mr and Miss.
As for now, it's like what is naturally happening, where everyone is equally given a choice to love someone. A simply love B, whether are they the same sex or not, regardless of their maritial status, regardless of the age difference, but they just love each other. maybe tt's what it's known as true love? (flirting is exception)
anyway, i'm kind of take my hat off for their courage to tell people of the same sex that they fell for them, knowing that they most likly are so called "straight". ofcos, my respect is only for true love!!
have u seen the light of hope, yet?
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