壁虎山莊 ™ Geckos' Lair

visited a fren's blog （hey, u din hear me wrongly, i'm treating u as a fren.. u know hu u r..) and saw the recent post about her boyfriend left her for another gal, 3 days ago.. i guess. they had been steady since june last year.. now, this gal is torturing herself with slashes on her wrist. sometimes i really dun understand wadz love...

• why issit that when a guy feels no love at all for a gal but the gal would still stick with him?
• why issit that when a guy is abusing a gal and she still stay by his side?
• why issit that sometimes a guy has been liking a gal for months and even years but the gal just don't wanna be with him?
• why issit that someone could just change their heart so fast even if they have been stead for a long time?
• what makes a gal willingly have sex with a guy even though she knows that the guy was just fooling with her?
• what makes someone willingly accept everything about his/her partner?
• what is love...

looks like everyone has their own point of view about wad love exactly is.. love can be sweet, bitter, torturing and so on.. depends on both the party individually...

a piece of advice i'm giving is that.. 真明天子只有一个。。 是你的，就是你的。。 不是你的，勉强也没用。。

breaking up early with the wrong person might also means that you have a chance to look for the chosen one earlier and therefore u guys could start earlier and spend more time with each other... isn't that better? why still hang on to the past? it's time to start afresh!

i believe 1 thing i could ensure you is that you would love the person who really belongs to you more than anyone else, and at the same time, the person would shower you with his infinity love as well.. this must be what true love is...

if anyone does not agree with wad i said, feel free to comment and correct me.
nothing is correct or wrong in this world.. there is only agree or disagree..